I need advice on my teenage pregnancy.?

I am 13 years old and I think I am pregnant. Please save the lectures of getting pregnant at age of 13, I understand that and regret having sex. I pushed the guy off but he wouldn't listen to me.





Abortion is not an option because personally I don't think I would be able to live with myself knowing I did that. I realize that I am only 13 but I would really like to keep this baby. I am the 6th child in my family and was there when my brother had his first kid. I know this sounds really selfish but I just can't imagine having to give up my baby. I'm already so attached and its not even born yet, once its in my arms I don't think I'll ever want to let go. At the same time, I'm scared that I will regret this later in life because maybe another adoption family could have given it the life I wont be able to?





Please help me. I'm just looking for someone to talk to. I feel more alone than ever before and don't know what to do.I need advice on my teenage pregnancy.?
first of all...make sure that you are preg...second u need to think not just about how your life is going to change. but also think about if you will be able to provide the necessary things for your baby. and being that you come from an already large family i highly suggest having the baby adopted....even if it is adopted by a family member...it is better than you trying to take care of it and failing...I need advice on my teenage pregnancy.?
please just check if you're pregnant first


you shouldn't have to give up the baby if your family is suppotive, and of course it's not selfish want to protect your child! what a strange thing to say
if the pregnancy tests have been this in consistent. you really need to go to a doctor to know for sure, the doctor will be able to guide you and give you advise as well.


Really do need to do some research about this, talk to a counsellor. Your parents will not be happy about this, and if they don't come around, who will pay for the baby's things?


Talk to the father of the baby about it too, see what he thinks about it.


but two musts befor you think about abortion or adoption.


1. find out, go to a doctor.


2. tell your parents.
As hard as it may be I think you should have an abortion. If you look at it realistically it may be the only option, you're in school and will not be able to take care of a child. You're still young and your body probably isn't ready for childbirth anyway.





I also recommend talking to your mother/parents, they are the ones who will be able to support you most and I highly doubt they'd be upset with you in this sort of situation. If the boy made you have sex against your will that is a serious offence, you should get as much help and support as possible.
you dont even no if you are preggo your most likely just paranoid cuz your still really immature. sot take a preggo test about a week after you next expected period whether you get it or not
you have to first make sure that you are pregnant. take the pregnancy test so you actually know if you do get pregnant.


if abortion is not an option, think about adoption. there are lots of families out there willing to take care of your baby.


but before thinking of adoption, the best thing to do is to tell your parents and what they think. afterall you need to get all the support you can! your parents might be able to help you if you are willing to keep the baby but of course, that means you have to start sacrificing most of your time to take care of your baby. ...
If you pushed the guy off and he wouldn't listen to you, it's rape. You should report it. That's definitely not OK.





You need to find out for sure if you are pregnant. What makes you think you are? Are you in a position to buy a test from a pharmacy? IS there someone who can buy one for you?


Once you know this you will need to discuss it with your family or a counsellor and explore your options before you decide on one for sure.





Good luck with your decision if you are pregnant.
The first thing you need to do is buy a test or go to the Dr. to see if you really are pregnant or not. THEN you can decide what to do.





If you aren't pregnant but you plan on remaining sexually active, you need to talk to your mom, dad, or another trusted adult (bro? sis?) about getting on some regular birth control. If you aren't pregnant right now, consider it a near miss and do EVERYTHING you can to prevent a true pregnancy in the near future. You are a little young to be having sex in the first place but if you're going to do it, you better be safe about it.





Pregnancy isn't the worst thing that can happen to you. Think AIDS and other incurable STD's. Please stop and think about what you're doing with your body right now. If you have any questions about sex, pregnancy, STD's or anything else, don't hesitate to ask your parents, a teacher/coach, or any other responsible adult. If you have none, feel free to send me a message on here and I'll help as much as I can. :)





Good luck with everything, I hope you aren't pregnant and I hope you look into some birth control.