i'm not sure how to phrase this, but i'll give it my best shot.
whenever me and this guy hangout we always seem to wind up making out and things like that.
he's been liking me for the longest time, but i just don't feel that way about him, and he knows it.
well, we hung out with some friends saturday night, and things got a little out of hand, more than usual.
i feel super bad that i always lead him on like that and then the next day i have to re-explain to him that i just don't feel that way about him.
it's easy to lose control around this guy, but i don't want to hurt him anymore than i already have.
advice on how to fix this please? Teenage girl problems yadda, yadda. (advice?)?
you sure you dont like him? seems like you do just a lil bit! just tell him you want to be friends and you dont want to ruin the friendship by doing all of those other thingsTeenage girl problems yadda, yadda. (advice?)?
Well there is a very simple solution to this: Self Control.
I understand that sometimes it's easy to lose control around him, but seriously, I bet if you tried, you could control yourself with him.
Also, be very strait with him, tell him all you want is a friendship and nothing more. If he can't handle that then tough. Keep working on this and maybe things will turn out for the best. Good Luck = ) !
loll... kind of funny that you don't like him but end up getting so close... but its nice that you're trying not to hurt him... at this point u can do either of the two extremes...
a) make him a good friend... like a buddy... just be careful of not having ANY kind of physical contact or sit close or something like that (u know what i mean right?)
OR
b) avoid him as much as u can
good luck!
you 2 make out but you dont even like him? thats cold.you shouldnt make out with him if you dont like him because if he likes you like that and your just teasing him thats very wrong.you should stop doing sexual things with him if you dont feel the same way.
I wish I could give some advice.
But I don't know.
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I think you should just try to stop...leading him on?
just dont lead him on be staight forward with him
this is prolly the most hardest question i've ever answered... well i would try to tell him how you really feel about him and stop leading him on.... just try to ignore him, if he comes back to you more than 2 times, tell him this straight to his face in a harsh tone: ';look!! i don't want to go out with you,( lower tone) i dont think of that way. (nice voice) im sorry, but i think we should both move on. I'm just not feeling any connection between us... it's not gonna work... i'm sorry. I think we shouldn't say anything to each other for awhile, ( dont have to say this part, optional) maybe things will change.';
hoped i helped :)
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