Men, please respond. What 3 tidbits of advice would you give to your teenage daughter, regarding men.?

It's fine if you don't have a daughter, simply put yourself in the shoes of a father.Men, please respond. What 3 tidbits of advice would you give to your teenage daughter, regarding men.?
1 - judge ppl by facts (what they do) not by stories (what they say)





2 - don't rush sex with your bfriend, sex gets better the more is desired


(not sure how to pack this line though, don't have a dghtr to experiment how she would look like hearing that line :-)





3 - math is sexy. hook up with math geeks, they know how to handle curves :-)Men, please respond. What 3 tidbits of advice would you give to your teenage daughter, regarding men.?
While you don't want to think about them engaging in sexual activity, it's likely going to happen. With that in mind, I'd simply remind her that a guy will likely say he loves her and cares about her and while that may partly true, chances are, he really just wants to have sex with her.





The true measure of his care and love should come in his taking responsibility to protect her as best as he can from any unfortunate circumstances. (ie. he wouldn't think twice about NOT using a condom).
I hope that my life as an example is enough to advise my daughter about men.
1. Bad boys may seem exciting and alluring, but they are nothing but trouble, not only in the short term but the long term as well. Save your heartbreak, find a nice guy.





2. Boys in their teenage years are very hormonally driven, they will say and do just about anything to get sexual satisfaction. Be cautious and never under any circumstances give in to anyone until you are ready, hopefully that will be when you are married, as something that special should be saved for the one and only.





3. Just say no to drugs, alcohol and cigarettes. You will feel peer pressure, but first you need to respect yourself, and your convictions before anyone else will. If you feel you have to do something in order to be accepted into a group or have that person as a friend, then they are not really friends. Respect yourself, and then others will respect you and your opinions. The folks who smoke, drink and do drugs are not the ones you want to be around, no matter how nice they may seem.
1. Pick respectable and honest boyfriends, who come from good families.


2. Respect yourself, have limits, and he'll respect you.


3. Most importantly, I need to meet this kid and check him out before the first date.





Then three tidbits of advice to the boyfriend


1. Respect my daughter if you want to continue living


2. No alcohol or drugs, ever.


3. Be home at the time we set and never late.
1) If you date trash, you'll marry trash.


2) Never meet new guy alone.


3) Verify everything.
Your parents love you more than anybody else on this planet. We feed you, give you clothes, buy your gear, and take care of you when you are sick. Your friends and boyfriend can't and won't do that for you. If you want to know what true and undying love is, think about the way We feel about you. We know you don't love us as much as we love you, but we just wanted you to know how much we care.





Now when a boy asks you to do something that you know we don't approve of, smoke dope, take pills, or have sex, what are you going to do? Listen to the one who says he cares about you but can't and won't do a thing for you, or listen to what the people who gave you life and have shown you love all these years.





Your Mom and I love you and only want the best for you. Try to remember what we have taught you and you will do fine.
Guys only want one thing. Even if they are the sweetest nicest guy, the end result is sex. Try to find the guys will provide the most along the way. Dont give yourself away for the price of a happy meal.
1)Stay away from men


2)Stay away from men


3)Stay away from men
It's amazing how much of this advice is already exactly what I've told my daughters. One daughter brought home a ';love note'; at the age of 9 and didn't ';get it';. I told her about love and how her Mom and I love her and that this boy doesn't really love her, that he just thinks shes pretty/cute. Then went on to explain: ';Sometimes boys say things to girls that they really don't mean because they wanna kiss girls'; (remember, this is for a 9 year old)... her response... ';eeewwwwww';! Priceless! Shes a little older now and she now knows where babies come from (to which she also responded... ';eeewwwwwww';).





So, #1 - boys say things they don't really mean.





#2 - dating leads to marraige and marraige leads to children so only date Christian men (someone that shares your faith).





#3 - don't use sex as a weapon in your marraige