TEENAGE serious problem, HELP!!! i need advice!?

I have a b.f he was my causins ex. not realizing how she would react after she found out that i was w/ him i excepted him a week later she finds out n writes a message on myspace saying ';i was her good causin n he was her ex.'; she sounded sad disapointed and mad idk if its my fault because she dumped him (like 6 months ago) for this other guy who is her b.f right now i feel really bad like i backstabbed her i aready appalogized to her i havent gotten her responce yet wat do i do?????? Did i do wrong??????...HELPTEENAGE serious problem, HELP!!! i need advice!?
No i don't think that you did wrong. As long as you and your boy friend weren't seeing eachother before him and your cousin broke up I see no harm in that. You say that you apologized to your cousin, I would like you to email me and ill get in more depth with you on what you should do. I would also like to know what kind of apology you said to her like just I'm sorry, or will you forgive me? Here is my email address. You can contact me anytime you would like and I'll give you a very good website to go and help you apologize maybe a little bit better.





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Alex,


Age 15TEENAGE serious problem, HELP!!! i need advice!?
If she left him that is her loss not yours if this person makes you happy then go for it dont put ur feelings aside for hers she wouldn't do it for you ...If it really came down to it....but she will get over it in time her feelings are kind of hurt right now..so jus let her kool off n let her contact u you made ur move n done ur part by apologizing so it's up to her hunny ..


People say blood is thicker than water but i say love is thicker than blood...so give that man all ur lovin's hey cuz if she don't want to talk to u n e more that's more love u can give to someone who will love you back good luck Hunny...dont let it get u down!!!
U should never get involved with an ex of ur friends or family. If u already apologized just wait till she cools off because shes probably still mad.
well, it depends if his worth staying with,like if your cousins upset, you shouldnt worry about it because its her fault, not yours, because she left him, because she didnt like him, and its not your fault because you fell for him, and its something that happens. but the question is, did u know that thye were going out, and then u relize theyre not, and then u went and scooped in. well if u did that, then, i would think thats a problem, but if u didnt know, its sumthing u shouldnt worry about. i hope this helped. good luck wit your coz.
ya you're wrong on many counts. you don't go out with ex's of relatives. learn how to spell too and stop worrying about boys.
This IS NOT A SERIOUS PROBLEM!!! Wake up and learn to tell the difference!
the only thing u can do is try to talk to her


and ask if she's ok


or u'll dump him if she's not
no it jus the rules u kno no matter how over ur ex u are u jus wouldnt like seein him wit someone else.....if u think hes worth it than forget abo ur couzin...but if hes just a nother guy which is 99% of the time...go play wit someone else...cuz its chicks over ***** remeber that!
Sorry kid.





The only serious problem that you have is your spelling, grammar, and punctuation.





Other than that you're doing just fine.
Yes you did something wrong, and you think its wrong too, if not you wouldn't apologize. there's nothing you can do to nake her feel better except assuring her that you would never intentionally do something like that just to hurt her. My solution, explain to her how much you fell for him (you bf her ex), how it was somewhat uncontrollabe, just how she fell for him when they met. After that, that's all you can do, it's now her choice to forgive and forget.
#1 rule never date a guy your friend or family has dated
Yeah it wasn't the best thing to do. Someone who once dated anyone close to you is OFF LIMITS. Unless the friend or relative of yours is understanding and okay with it, or if you don't care about them and want to possibly burn that bridge.
You shouldn't feel bad if she dumped him 6 months ago...And if she has a boyfriend now, then if she really cared about him, then she shouldn't have any problems with you dating her ex...Me and my ex are like best friends, and we really were just talking about somthing like this last night...And that is exactly what I told him...If you cousin is dating a guy now, and has feelings for him, then you dating her ex shouldn't bother her, but if she doesn't really care about her current boyfriend, then the feelings from her ex could possibly have returned...You apologized and that is the most you could do..Don't break up with him because of this, just keep dating him, and let your cousin work this out...
Well no one can make that decison but you. If she moved on the it should be ok.
ask your cousin and see who broke up with who if he broke up with her ask her what would be a good way to get back if she wanted to
Your cousin should know better that a guy shouldn't let ya'lls relationship get ruined. Thats family and if shes going to disown you like that, thats her problem. Whats it to her anyways they broke up almost half a year ago and shes moved on. If she still cares about her ex, which is your bf, then she still have feelings for him. Dont feel like your the bad cousin, you didn't do anything bad, well except get the leftovers from your cousin but tell your cousin your cousin to chill. Let her remember, she dumped him. get over it %26amp; move on.
JUST DONT WORRY





YOU AND YOUR COUSIN BOTH GET TOGETHER WITH HIM AND HAVE A THREESOME...





JUST ENJOY YOUR TEENAGE YEARS


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she can get over it he's yours now and she's probably just jealous.
for future reference, it is always better NOT to date past boyfriends of any relatives or good friends.
Ask your cousin if she would like you to finish with him, if she says yes, then do it. You dont realise this yet but chances are he will only be your b.f for a while, She will be your cousin for a life time.
well she dumbed him and has a new boyfriend, maybe you should have talked to her about this before you started dating her ex. but her and her ex are over so there is no reason why she should be upset with you, leave her alone for a while and maybe she will come around and start talking to you, all you can do is apologize it's her decision if she is willing to accept it.
OK THIS IS KINDERGARTEN WORK!


HOW HAVE YOU DONE HER WRONG


She DUMPED HIM! So what if he is YOUR cousin's EX.


FOR HEAVENS SAKE YOU HAVENT BACKSTABBED HER


especially if SHE dumped him.
u know she is definitely dissapointed in u.esp if u were good friends along with just sis.if she dumped him for some reason it means the guy has a flaw. may b u'll find out later n she is just worried. talk to her.n situation is definitely uncomfortable for her.but if u really like the guy n he is worth it carry on ur sis wil either understand or be used to it.dont apologise repeatedly.
Yes, kinda she is still emotionally upset over him..... just give it time it will work out... Good Luck!
first, you need to put some freaking punctuation in your question. I didn't know when to stop, when to pause, and when to keep reading. and secondly, it's spelled ';cousin';. and thirdly, call your cousin and talk to her over the phone. Myspace messages aren't going to solve anything.





By the way, this is not a serious problem. When you have to pay your bills, then you'll know what a serious problem is.
Of course you did something wrong. That is very sick to date someone your relative dated. Dump the guy and start doing a lot of groveling and butt kissing. You have just caused a bunch of problems for your whole family because you couldn't go find a guy that hasn't dated a family member.
First of all...it's not the end of the world...this happens a lot..


If you were close to your cousin before all of this, you may want to give her time %26amp; see if she comes around....sometimes we forget to take into account how other


people may react to the decisions we make....this doesn't mean that other people's feelings are more important than yours. In this case, it sounds like you feel very guilty based on how your cousin has reacted...since you are young, ask yourself this...Is this guy (who my cousin already has a ';past'; with) worth losing the bond I have with my cousin? Just remember..family is forever...%26amp; forever is a loooong time. Plus, there might be a really good reason why your cousin broke up with him...HMMMMM. You did not do wrong, you just set yourself up for an amazing life lesson :)!!! You all will live through this drama %26amp; go on to experience so much more. Chin up!!! Be Well!! Best of luck!!!
...this is serious? I thought it was life threatening(though you can never tell with teenagers). My best advice is to wait for a response, and not go crazy.
well u should be fine d8ing him especially since she dumped him!


and if she has a problem w/ it then she shouldn't have dumped him.


and if she does have a problem w/ it dont let it bother u cz he is dateable now and open to any1 including u since she dumped him. so she should not have a problem w/ it cz she doesnt want him anymore.
no hes her ex!and she dumped him!sh doesnt own him.you shouldnt have 2 appoligize.it was six monyhs ago an she has a new bf she should be well over him.shes treating you unfairly.maybe she just isnt worth talking too anymore if shes going 2 be like that.