Advice for a troubled teenage stud?

Okay so let me start off saying that im 14 and a stud.(dress like a guy) my family and friends all know this. my friends and sisters dont have a problem with me. but my uncle and grandmother do and seeing that i live with them it is near impossible to ignore them. they hate the fact that im stud. but at one point in time my uncle said that it does not matter which section my clothes came from it was that they are too baggy. so i thought okay cool. ill just get clothes that are smaller in size. one time when we went to the mall we were looking at clothes from the guys section. andd he did not have a problemm with it but now that the school year is coming to a close he says he is buring all of my old clothes and that all of the new clothes he will buy will be coming from the girls section. i donnt know wwhat to do because he is being so irrational. i feel so uncomfortable in clothes that are tight and girly. i i really need some advice at this poi point. so please help. he even told me if i didnt like it i could get the hell out.when i reminded him of what he said he told me i was looking in the pastAdvice for a troubled teenage stud?
hmm. First of all, talk to them. Sit them down and just say how you don't feel comfortable in girly tight clothes. Stay calm, but be adamamt that you want to continue wearing these clothes. Remind them that they are the uncle and auntie and the should love you no matter what and should let you express yourself in your style of clothes.


If that doesn't work, then you will have to talk to them individually.





'when i reminded him of what he said he told me i was looking in the past' - do you mean when he said your clothes were okay just too baggy ?


If it was say that you are trying to accomodate and are wearing tighter clothes, but say you are not and don't have to change your style of dress for anyone.


it's part of who you are.


Talk maturly and don't get angry and they will treat you with respect.


good luck :) xxAdvice for a troubled teenage stud?
sometimes its just hard to deal with those kind of people. why do they even have 'sections'. i think having a girl and guy section are stupid and it makes it hard for a lot of peple to shop.
tell him to accept you for who you are or forget it. Explain to him how you feel about this siuation.
soooo you're a chick who likes guys clothes. Am I understanding this right ? Ok. I really don't see a problem with this at 14 ( or any age for that matter) so long as you're not dressing just to tick your aunt and uncle off. T-shirts and jeans were pretty standard attire for just about everyone when I grew up, girls and guys. If you're doing some weird gansta fashion or something all bets are off. You gotta know thats just provocative no matter who wears that crap. Use some common sense.
Why tdo you call do you call yourself a stud??


(massivelly unattractive)





DRESS NORMAL


you know its not a big deal to dress like a girl


YOU ARE A GIRL





Weather or not you fit a sterotypical look; I don't know





KNOWONE KNOWONE KNOWONE KNOWONE KNOWONE


wears baggy clothes





NOT EVEN


black guys/gurls





ON THE REAL


IF YOUR 14





YOUR EITHER IN HIGH SCHOOL OR ABOUT TO START





I WOULD NEVER NEVER NEVER NEVER NEVER NEVER


ASSCOCIATE MYSELF WITH SOMEONE WHO APPEARS TO NOT GIVE A DAMN ABOUT THERE APPEARANCE.





ITS NOT SHALLOW. Its reality. Thats where you live isn't it?





Psychology is the field I will one day enter.





Your 14 which makes you young. More obviously your young minded.





MOST LIKELY


Your uncomfortable and unsure of your body. Therefore you dress the way you do to hide your discomfort. However all your doing is appearing clueless to those around you.





If your looking for a person to assure you to do what feels right.


make sure that same person wants wants to walk down the street with someone wearing a 3x polo

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