Why does a teenage girl with an ok life feel SO ALONE? advice is needed..?

im 15 and i have the whole world going for me, im pretty smart[not a genius] and have many good friend yet i cant be content with who iam because..





i feel so alone and have been let down by misleading guys twice. im a hopeless romantic living ina small town not many guy choices nor many good ones.





i feel alone a lot and want to cry[sounds emo, but if you knew me im not that type of person i am just confused by my emotions]


Anyone else feel like if they dont have a boyfriend they feel unwanted and unloved? i mean i am loved by guy friends,friends,family god. ect im not sucicidal as someone else tryed to state i can look at the +'s but latley i just cannot keep my head up .. any adivceWhy does a teenage girl with an ok life feel SO ALONE? advice is needed..?
Mostly what you need to do sugar is just try to focus intently on something that interests you ,,,,





You just need to learn patience is all ,,,, Occupy your mind with more constructive things to do ,,,,





Things will eventually come your way but only in their own good time not yours ,,,,





Don't be in such a hurry ,,,, That could lead to mistakes and mistakes and regret are things that could last you the rest of your life ,,,,





Things will come right for you and you'll eventually meet that Mr Right guy ,,,, Just don't fall for or settle for second best ever ,,,, That could lead to regret that could haunt you the rest of your life too ,,,,





You get a star from me for this one because it's a problem allot of girls have ,,,, You aren't alone ,,,,





Yoda said this ,,,,Why does a teenage girl with an ok life feel SO ALONE? advice is needed..?
Been there, done that. I'm 21 and haven't had a b/f. Is this a cautionary tale? Well, yes and no.





It's great to have high standards, especially if you have a lot going for you high standards is a MUST.


However, if you're shy like me, try to break out of your shell a little. This will help you realize that there are a FEW great guys out there and some of them may be checking you out, too.


Just smile! and don't be afraid to flirt a little. I wish I would have known this earlier, but I'm no longer shy, so :)





Good luck!!! And keep ya head up and your standards high. You'll find someone who (almost) deserves a great girl like you.
Oh sweetie... The world sucks when you are a teenager. What I did was found a teenage counselor and started talking about how I feel, It helped.





There are hotlines, web sites... Just try to keep your chin up and I'll pray for you!
Yeah I know sometimes I think everyone has that point in their life when they feel alone even though they have everyone there for them. I think you should take things slow with the romantic thing because you're still young so I think you should still explore and keep your options open.
I'm 15 and doing just fine single. Most guys aren't serious about relationships in high school, so I'm waiting a bit.





Try hanging out with your friends more in this time of need. Do something thanks makes you feel good-if it's shopping, playing video games or whatever. I highly advise you not to online date no matter how hard your situation is.





Hang in there! Best wishes to you. ^^
we all feel down sometimes, and yes you do sound kind of emo, but anyways it happens











anyways hope you feel better
All you have is two more years of bull feces to wade through until you can get on with the rest of your life. Why would you want to waste time with losers who don't see you for how great you are anyway? Get good grades so you can go to school in a big city, but not New York. They have a lousy girl-to-guy ratio.
just hang in there its not great advice but i get depressed as hell too and i am in my twenties. i feel alone all the time too and have never really been in a serious relationship. if your looking for a bf i would try to have maybe one of your friends try to hook you up.
Sounds like mild depression. You are also going through a very hormonal time in your life. Find a hobby. Volunteer at a hospital or old folks home. Get your mind off of YOU.
my long-lost sister
I totally get what you mean and you know what its pretty normal to feel that way.





There are ups and downs in life and lonliness is somtimes a part of it.





Try and keep yourself occupied and get other interests, it will take your mind of your lonliness and you wont have time to be lonely as you will be busy.





As for the guy part you will find someone at some point just dont be in a rush or you could get yourself into something you dont want to be in.





Hats off to you for being so mature and really wanting to find out more about your emotions.





Dont stress though just busy yourself. You will be fine. Its just a small hurdle and you should be okay!!





Take Care
Welcome to the story of my life. ha ha and I'm only 6 years older than you. If you need some one to talk to just e-mail me at askpdubs@yahoo.com I would be more than happy to listen, well read. And help you through stuff... Trust me, I just did all of this a few years ago :)
look everyone gets depressed sumtimes i mean thinngs r hard and everythin is changin but it really helps just to do somthin to get ur mind off it
you make your life happy not anyone else. Just find the one thing in life that makes you happy and maybe you will be alittle more content in your situation.
Welcome to adulthood, the world is tough, and we all feel alone sometimes. Just focus on the fact that your still alive and tomorrow can be what ever you make it. It will definately all work out, it's just tough being a teenager, especially in a small town.
I think you are attaching too much significance to your lack of a boyfriend which is fueling your feelings of depression and worthlessness. As you are only 15, you have a somewhat limited dating pool. As you get older and go away to school, I think you will find more opportunities to meet people which will increase your odds of finding a suitable candidate to be your boyfriend.





By the way, I don't find your description of yourself to qualify you as a hopeless romantic, but rather you are a hopefull romantic. Your mission is to increase your chances of meeting people...so take the advice of many of the others posting answers to your question and get involved in activities that boys would also be interested in.
dont worry..i feel the same way. im 15 also and when i see other girls with their boyfriends,i feel somewhat jealous. i hate to admit it. i say to myself ';why cant i fall in love?'; or ';why cant i find a guy who will love me?';. its not emo in any way, a lot of people think this way. i think its too soon to find a true love, so dont give up hope. you dont have to be loved, to love yourself and who you are. you sound like a great girl, so the right person will come around. its just a matter of time.
We have our good and bad days and sometime we focus on the negatives. Don't let this get the best of you.


You have a long way to go just do good in school and hangout with friends for now. Don't stress about having a bf because when they break up with you'll be stress even more.
Not to sound like your mom or anything, but at 15 you should'nt be worried about your love life. Dont get me wrong it's okay to date (depending on your parents), but worrying about feeling unloved should be the last thing on your mind. You have plenty of heartache ahead of you...trust me. I'm sure you are a beautiful girl and you should first put this much time, energy and love within yourself.
If your 15, your emotions are just going to be like that for the next few years. Try doing cardio 30 min. 3-5 times a week. I love running early in the morning. This will use up some of the hormones that are bothering you. Also get pleanty of sleep and eat right. Chin up girl, this will only last a little while, and almost every one else goes through the exact same thing.
It's pretty typical to have these feelings at your age. It can be lonely when it seems like all of your friends have found someone while you are still alone. The trick is not to settle for someone in an attempt to avoid feeling lonely. If you settle for someone who is below your standards just to avoid feeling lonely, you will regret it later. It actually sounds like you have a very full life and are wanted and loved by many people. Try to focus on all the good things you have going for you. If you find yourself feeling lonely or bored, think about becoming a volunteer for a local social service agency. Being a volunteer is a very rewarding experience and it also looks great on a college application. It should help you feel better about yourself too. As for the slim pickings of quality guys in your small town, perhaps you should consider going away for college. You don't have that much longer to wait, and college is a wonderful time to meet new people and discover new places.