My little brother((he is 16)) just found out his 18 year old girl friend is pregnant with there second child. She is three months. What advice would you give him on raising a family at such a young age?What advice do you have for a teenage boy with 2 kids?
Being as he doesn't have a job that would be enough to pay support for those two babies, it gets put on the shoulders of the taxpayers. He and his girlfriend needs to use birth control. He also needs to keep himself in school so he can get a degree and step up to be a father to his children. There are far too many children nowadays without fathers to take care of them. Also tell him it is hard to escape poverty when teens have children.What advice do you have for a teenage boy with 2 kids?
Learn how to keep it in his pants, since obviously birth control is beyond his comprehension. Unfortrunately this advice comes too late, as we taxpayers are now saddled with the rearing of his two little ones.
Adoption, or planned parenthood!
the only advice i have is ';GET A BETTER EDUACTION FOR A BETTER FUTURE!'; he should defintely get going back to school. if he gets a better education he could get a good job and better support his kids.
Perhaps he should get snipped down there or she should have her tubes tied. Certainly they sjould not want to have a number 3.
Sorry who are you to give advice ! after seeing your profile your 17 with two daughters ..pot kettle and black come to mind !
Um, why wouldn't he learn after the first time? Do your parents have to pay child support? I'd tell him to keep it in his pants and maybe consider adoption because no 16 year old guy is responsible enough for a kid, let alone two. Girls can be different, but come on...that's just ridiculous.
Well I would think he is already aware of the needs of a family on a daily basis---this family unit is serious business--not much time for play---always got bills and things to do around the house. He is really not going to appreciate any advise---I would mind my own business and let them work it out. Just be nice.
Condoms are your friend. Seriosly though I don't know.. I don't mean to sound like an *** but the guy pretty much screwed his life up big time and doesn't seem to be headed toward much of a future.
I have one word for him: ADOPTION!! There are so many stable loving parents out there who would love to raise the kids he keeps bringing into the world. A 16 yr old has no business trying to raise a baby.
That's just great! maybe Superman could spin the Earth in reverse so we could go back in time and fix this mess.
that's weird doesn't He have a mom or dad that can tell him you should be at school not having sex and even if your are someone invited the condoms or anticipative its responsibility of mom and dad and himself and the lady of course
OMG. He should have kept it in his pants the first time. Way TOO young. But seriously, advice: Be caring for the children. Most importantly the kids need to be loved and secure so they grow up nicely. Also support (emotional) his girlfriend as much as he can. If he feel like he lost his childhood and will have no more fun ever...well he has lost his childhood, but 36 (when his kids may be moved out of is house) isn't too old to have fun.
Well its too late to have ago at him for being so young!
He needs to get a career behind him for the sake of his babies!!
He needs to start thinking of the future and where its going!
He now has to stop thinking of himself and start thinking about the babies he is bringing into this world! As they didnt ask to be brought into this world!
to try his best and take help when its handed to him and to suport his gf and help her with anything she needs and to be mature and get a job to atleast help out with things that need to be payed for.
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