Advice to a 13 year old daughter, from a mother? mothers only plz?maybe even fathers with teenage daughters :]?

i want to shave my pubic hair, but my mom disaproaves of it. im embarrased to talk to her about it, and she doesnt always take that stuff seriously. how should i bring it up, and try to get her to allow it? how would u react if ur daughter asked u this?Advice to a 13 year old daughter, from a mother? mothers only plz?maybe even fathers with teenage daughters :]?
Hun, i'm sure your mom doesn't see you naked...so if you want to shave your pubic hair, then do it, it's your choice.Advice to a 13 year old daughter, from a mother? mothers only plz?maybe even fathers with teenage daughters :]?
I agree with answerer number 1 it is pretty itchy. That being said you can always trim. Or if you must shave it, why tell your mom? Would she ever know otherwise?? I know my mom wouldn't have had. At 13 I wouldn't really approve of my daughter doing this because it would concern me as to who she expects to be seeing it where it would matter. However, I think it's perfectly okay to do so if you really think you want to.
I wouldn't worry about too much.If you want to shave down their, it is your opinion, not hers. You can get a razor and shave it, or shave most of it off, then wax the rest off, or use really, really sticky tape. I wouldn't bring it up. If you feel you must, just say my pubic hair is getting too long, and is sticking out of my underwear. Plus it is very itchy. That is all you have to do. My mom didn't care when I asked her, and neither do I. It's their life, not mine...or your life, not your moms
Its your body, if you want you can shave, and your mom won't know since she doesn't see you naked.





As a lot of people have said, it itches when the hair grows back. So if you want to be hairless down there, its better to wax at a salon. A brazilian is only $20 and it lasts a lot longer than shaving, no cuts, etc.





But since you're only 13, waxing is expensive, and pointless. Wait until you're older, then go for it. If you're not doing anything sexually, and no one can see why shave at all?
I have been shaving there since I was 19 years old. I was not living at home, nor would I have ever asked my mom about it. I do it for a few reasons: its far sexier, and my husband prefers it. I feel cleaner and fresher there. And it only gets itchy if you don't keep shaving.


Your 13. I know that I do it mostly for sexual reasons. Are you sexually active? Do you have a boyfriend? At 13, I would be questioning your motives and the reasons why you want to do this. A lot of porn stars shave or get waxed.


If your going to do it, you had better not tell your mom or let her see you naked.


I would hope my daughter when she turns 13 won't ask me about stuff like that, because I would tell her no. At 13, you don't need to be shaving there.
i have a son.. but if i had a daughter and she asked me this..


I would go and buy her the things she needed if she was embarrassed to her self. then not bring it up unless she wanted to ask anything..


i don't see a massive deal in a girl wanting to do this..don't make a big deal about it..threes not a huge amount to disapprove of i feel.
i am sorry, i am a 'daughter'... i dont know why you asked your mom in the first place.. i just did it. if you can shave ur legs you can shave your pubic hair... how is she going to know? i think the first time i did i had to cut a little off with scissors then shave. i was talking about it at like 14 (after doing it for more then a year) and my mom just thought i was joking. i really think that it is more of a personal matter and if u dont want it then get rid of it.





to the person that responded rite before me, it wasn't that any was looking down there when i was 13, it was that it was messy and gross. when u got your period it like clumped up and it actually isn't too itchy, i just shave every time i go in the shower... the pits the legs and the vajayjay
um i never told my mom that i started to shave, so just do it, make sure you clip the hair some before you shave or it will take forever and use a lot of soap, and put lotion on after your done it will help with the itchiness of the hair growing back. just dint tell her, she doesn't see you naked or anything.
dont shave it.put a hair remover on it(like a cream,it melts away the hair)but it really is horribly itchy when it grows back,and i mean really itchy its unpleasant.just dont shave underneath or you could do yourself some injury.
im not sure how often your mom looks at your va jay jay, but couldn't you just do it and not say anything?
why would you need to ask her?


its not like shed find out if you did unless you frequently show her your bits


if my daughter asked me this id be like why are you asking me?
Actually, don't shave it. It is soooo itchy when it grows back.
i never asked my mom if i could shave my pubic hair..i just did...its what im comfortable with....just do it, im sure she is not looking at you naked anyway..