Teenage daughter and troubled home how to handle want to sort things out with the best advice?

Dear all





My daughter is a teenager and gets very angry and shouts all the time. She has become very arrogant and it is increasing day by day. Yes she has lots of studies, and no one to help her on the same. Though not upto my budget i have arranged home tuitions for her.





i work 12 hours a day, my husband has just started working. i dont have good realtionship infact we dont talk to each other. He is a disciplinarian and always fights and shouts if things are not done his way.





every morning my daughter and my husband fight and the whole day is a mess for all. i have another son who is younger but is ok expect for his never ending demand of toys.





i feel there should be some way i can work it out but confused.





i get tired as i have physical and mental tension at office, i am working because of economical situation and not very happy at work but necessity.





when my daughter is calm i have explained but i dont know.





there used to be days she used to be ok but now a days it is everyday she is rude and rough and bangs the door.





pls advice.Teenage daughter and troubled home how to handle want to sort things out with the best advice?
i think it is sensible age for girl. you should communicate with her more ( i know it is difficult, because u r working for 12 hours a day, but one of you have to spend some time with her), knowing how is day in school, and what is her relationship with her classmates. it is very important,as you know nowdays , the kids are very easy to learn something bad than having a good habit.





meanwhile, you can arrange a competition between her and her younger brother. maybe, they can take care of each other.





you'd better enjoy the time at home though you have a lot of pressure from work. as you know, when your emotion does not feel well, then you look at everything negatively.








Be happy!