Teenage problems..please help i need an advice so badly >_<?

i never thought that i will be backbitten by others,yep its me again 13 yrs. girl, high school's tough!,...ok here goes; I asked my close friend who's so good in drawing an anime manga to ask let's just call her enemy 1, if she likes me and my friends then enemy 1 said no....and i asked manga girl to ask enemy 2 is she likes me and my friends then she said no too...i felt sad,i want to cry but i need to stay strong. So, me and my close friend thought about not going with friend 1 (whos really judgmental) and friend 2 (who's quite flirty),but i;m quite used to hang out with them,i'm not flirty,well i'm quite judgemental...but i'm not like them so what should we do we are really confused now, should we avoid or make a distance to friend 1 and 2?, or what please help she and i are really confused, we can't trust people,those enemies are quite popular in class so were doomed if somebody will know bout this,so please give an advice thank you...Teenage problems..please help i need an advice so badly %26gt;_%26lt;?
i hv 2 admit i'm pretty confused here. ok, so fren 1 is judgemental, n fren 2 is flirty. i nvr had 2 deal with judgemental species yet but with a flirt, i did. n from my experience, it's not a happy ending. keep a distance, juz in case.





n this 'i like u, i don't like u' thing.. i'm in it right now so i get it.


take my advice - ignore them AND watever they say. we're after all humans - we can do watever we please.





there's a double meaning in dat. the 1st is, those enemies of urs can say watever they want simply bcoz we're not God, we can't shut them up n they juz won't shut up in the 1st place. besides, if they call u a freak, a loser, hopeless.. juz think abt it - r these words worth ur time? attention? worth thinking abt? the answer is NO, bcoz these words get u nowhere. there's a difference between an insult n a critical sentence.. the 4mer destroys u gradually, n the latter juz makes u stronger. the 2nd is, simply, u will always hv the choice 2 listen 2 the ones dat build u n not the ones dat'll bring u down. learn 2 love urself, n accept it. no one else in this world can imitate U. so juz b urself!





if there's nobody 2 trust, juz keep looking - even if they're younger than u, they're a bit less awesome than u, anything. my 4mer circle consist of cool [read: popular] kids. but i observed dat as all of us get older, i got more n more left out [n get hurt in the process] n they juz ended up hurting each other. dissing, being dissed, tending 2 the pain of one another.. it creeps me. i ended up trusting a couple of 14-year-olds - 3 years my junior - but i've nvr been more happier. it helps dat they sound older than their real age.





hv a nice day! =DTeenage problems..please help i need an advice so badly %26gt;_%26lt;?
don't try to make yourself liked by the popular people. If they're your enemies, their opinion shouldn't even matter. Keep your friends if they truly are your friends. Don't avoid them (your friends) just because someone else doesn't like them; everyone has different opinions on each person, and these opinions shouldn't effect your own, personal opinions in any way.
Keep your friends close %26amp; your enemies closer... I mean, you can sit there %26amp; dwell on it %26amp; make this stiuation the center of your life,or you can move on.





Just don't worry about who likes you %26amp; who doesn't. You are going to find that all through your life. Just be yourself.
You should get help from expert, like Dr Phil! :D


asking these people in yahoo answers is not a good idea.


so you wont get anywere to get help.
avoid. believe me the last thing u want in HS is drama.