im gonna meet my relative who's 16 and her sister 14 i dint know what to talk about and what to avoid??
what places should we go to?
and finally what presents should i bring?Im meeting a teenage relative .. advices?
You need not be self conscious or over awed by any of your relations with whom you did not have have any prior acquaintance. Be natural and move with them easily. Make them at ease. Unless they are very imperious, show your love and affection to them, as you would to your friends.Im meeting a teenage relative .. advices?
you can bring any kind of girlie things-go to the store 'Claire's'-they have wonderful stuff that girls like-ask the sales clerk to help you-they will love everything. as for where to go, kids love movies, and they love going out for burgers. once you get there I'm sure that they will let you know what they like doing. i wouldn't get too worried about this-I'm sure you will have a wonderful visit with them. just relax and enjoy the visit.
Saturday, August 21, 2010
I'm a teenage girl having trouble with a shy guy who knows i like him, i dont know what to do. dating advice?
We liked each other at the same time a couple months ago, but then summer came and we didn't talk for a couple months. Now that school has been in session for a while i have realized that my feelings have resurfaced and finally got the courage to tell him a couple days ago. Now i don't know what to do. i don't know if he still likes me or if he's ever going to acknowledge the fact that i like him. he's really shy and i didn't expect him to come to me first, so i went to him and told him how i feel, and he was so shy that he just nodded, said 'okay' and kind of walked away. i don't have a lot of experience with guys and so i was wondering what i can do about this situation because i'm sick of waiting, ive been waiting for 6 months.I'm a teenage girl having trouble with a shy guy who knows i like him, i dont know what to do. dating advice?
Coming from a shy guy myself, he'll come around. Try to find out what his hobbies are and study on them. If you can connect on a fun level, he'll open up and be more friendly. Music, art, television, movies, anything like that would do.
Also, don't be afraid to ask him out. And as a guy, he won't say no.I'm a teenage girl having trouble with a shy guy who knows i like him, i dont know what to do. dating advice?
If hes shy, talk to him through either email, text or msn.
This way he can talk to you without even having to open his mouth so you will get a answer for sure.
If you cant get him on any of them, then you will have to find out through either his friends you go up to him again and just ask him out right.
Make sure you get a answer from this kid or you will just spend the rest of your time trying to work out.
Another way is to ask him to go out with him to somewhere like the cinema or just hang out.
So you will get to know him on your own, and he will get to know you too.
It will also help him work out his feelings for you, and give him more confidence around you.
So go ask him as soon as you can.
Have fun and good luck.
Coming from a shy guy myself, he'll come around. Try to find out what his hobbies are and study on them. If you can connect on a fun level, he'll open up and be more friendly. Music, art, television, movies, anything like that would do.
Also, don't be afraid to ask him out. And as a guy, he won't say no.I'm a teenage girl having trouble with a shy guy who knows i like him, i dont know what to do. dating advice?
If hes shy, talk to him through either email, text or msn.
This way he can talk to you without even having to open his mouth so you will get a answer for sure.
If you cant get him on any of them, then you will have to find out through either his friends you go up to him again and just ask him out right.
Make sure you get a answer from this kid or you will just spend the rest of your time trying to work out.
Another way is to ask him to go out with him to somewhere like the cinema or just hang out.
So you will get to know him on your own, and he will get to know you too.
It will also help him work out his feelings for you, and give him more confidence around you.
So go ask him as soon as you can.
Have fun and good luck.
Advice to a 13 year old daughter, from a mother? mothers only plz?maybe even fathers with teenage daughters :]?
i want to shave my pubic hair, but my mom disaproaves of it. im embarrased to talk to her about it, and she doesnt always take that stuff seriously. how should i bring it up, and try to get her to allow it? how would u react if ur daughter asked u this?Advice to a 13 year old daughter, from a mother? mothers only plz?maybe even fathers with teenage daughters :]?
Hun, i'm sure your mom doesn't see you naked...so if you want to shave your pubic hair, then do it, it's your choice.Advice to a 13 year old daughter, from a mother? mothers only plz?maybe even fathers with teenage daughters :]?
I agree with answerer number 1 it is pretty itchy. That being said you can always trim. Or if you must shave it, why tell your mom? Would she ever know otherwise?? I know my mom wouldn't have had. At 13 I wouldn't really approve of my daughter doing this because it would concern me as to who she expects to be seeing it where it would matter. However, I think it's perfectly okay to do so if you really think you want to.
I wouldn't worry about too much.If you want to shave down their, it is your opinion, not hers. You can get a razor and shave it, or shave most of it off, then wax the rest off, or use really, really sticky tape. I wouldn't bring it up. If you feel you must, just say my pubic hair is getting too long, and is sticking out of my underwear. Plus it is very itchy. That is all you have to do. My mom didn't care when I asked her, and neither do I. It's their life, not mine...or your life, not your moms
Its your body, if you want you can shave, and your mom won't know since she doesn't see you naked.
As a lot of people have said, it itches when the hair grows back. So if you want to be hairless down there, its better to wax at a salon. A brazilian is only $20 and it lasts a lot longer than shaving, no cuts, etc.
But since you're only 13, waxing is expensive, and pointless. Wait until you're older, then go for it. If you're not doing anything sexually, and no one can see why shave at all?
I have been shaving there since I was 19 years old. I was not living at home, nor would I have ever asked my mom about it. I do it for a few reasons: its far sexier, and my husband prefers it. I feel cleaner and fresher there. And it only gets itchy if you don't keep shaving.
Your 13. I know that I do it mostly for sexual reasons. Are you sexually active? Do you have a boyfriend? At 13, I would be questioning your motives and the reasons why you want to do this. A lot of porn stars shave or get waxed.
If your going to do it, you had better not tell your mom or let her see you naked.
I would hope my daughter when she turns 13 won't ask me about stuff like that, because I would tell her no. At 13, you don't need to be shaving there.
i have a son.. but if i had a daughter and she asked me this..
I would go and buy her the things she needed if she was embarrassed to her self. then not bring it up unless she wanted to ask anything..
i don't see a massive deal in a girl wanting to do this..don't make a big deal about it..threes not a huge amount to disapprove of i feel.
i am sorry, i am a 'daughter'... i dont know why you asked your mom in the first place.. i just did it. if you can shave ur legs you can shave your pubic hair... how is she going to know? i think the first time i did i had to cut a little off with scissors then shave. i was talking about it at like 14 (after doing it for more then a year) and my mom just thought i was joking. i really think that it is more of a personal matter and if u dont want it then get rid of it.
to the person that responded rite before me, it wasn't that any was looking down there when i was 13, it was that it was messy and gross. when u got your period it like clumped up and it actually isn't too itchy, i just shave every time i go in the shower... the pits the legs and the vajayjay
um i never told my mom that i started to shave, so just do it, make sure you clip the hair some before you shave or it will take forever and use a lot of soap, and put lotion on after your done it will help with the itchiness of the hair growing back. just dint tell her, she doesn't see you naked or anything.
dont shave it.put a hair remover on it(like a cream,it melts away the hair)but it really is horribly itchy when it grows back,and i mean really itchy its unpleasant.just dont shave underneath or you could do yourself some injury.
im not sure how often your mom looks at your va jay jay, but couldn't you just do it and not say anything?
why would you need to ask her?
its not like shed find out if you did unless you frequently show her your bits
if my daughter asked me this id be like why are you asking me?
Actually, don't shave it. It is soooo itchy when it grows back.
i never asked my mom if i could shave my pubic hair..i just did...its what im comfortable with....just do it, im sure she is not looking at you naked anyway..
Hun, i'm sure your mom doesn't see you naked...so if you want to shave your pubic hair, then do it, it's your choice.Advice to a 13 year old daughter, from a mother? mothers only plz?maybe even fathers with teenage daughters :]?
I agree with answerer number 1 it is pretty itchy. That being said you can always trim. Or if you must shave it, why tell your mom? Would she ever know otherwise?? I know my mom wouldn't have had. At 13 I wouldn't really approve of my daughter doing this because it would concern me as to who she expects to be seeing it where it would matter. However, I think it's perfectly okay to do so if you really think you want to.
I wouldn't worry about too much.If you want to shave down their, it is your opinion, not hers. You can get a razor and shave it, or shave most of it off, then wax the rest off, or use really, really sticky tape. I wouldn't bring it up. If you feel you must, just say my pubic hair is getting too long, and is sticking out of my underwear. Plus it is very itchy. That is all you have to do. My mom didn't care when I asked her, and neither do I. It's their life, not mine...or your life, not your moms
Its your body, if you want you can shave, and your mom won't know since she doesn't see you naked.
As a lot of people have said, it itches when the hair grows back. So if you want to be hairless down there, its better to wax at a salon. A brazilian is only $20 and it lasts a lot longer than shaving, no cuts, etc.
But since you're only 13, waxing is expensive, and pointless. Wait until you're older, then go for it. If you're not doing anything sexually, and no one can see why shave at all?
I have been shaving there since I was 19 years old. I was not living at home, nor would I have ever asked my mom about it. I do it for a few reasons: its far sexier, and my husband prefers it. I feel cleaner and fresher there. And it only gets itchy if you don't keep shaving.
Your 13. I know that I do it mostly for sexual reasons. Are you sexually active? Do you have a boyfriend? At 13, I would be questioning your motives and the reasons why you want to do this. A lot of porn stars shave or get waxed.
If your going to do it, you had better not tell your mom or let her see you naked.
I would hope my daughter when she turns 13 won't ask me about stuff like that, because I would tell her no. At 13, you don't need to be shaving there.
i have a son.. but if i had a daughter and she asked me this..
I would go and buy her the things she needed if she was embarrassed to her self. then not bring it up unless she wanted to ask anything..
i don't see a massive deal in a girl wanting to do this..don't make a big deal about it..threes not a huge amount to disapprove of i feel.
i am sorry, i am a 'daughter'... i dont know why you asked your mom in the first place.. i just did it. if you can shave ur legs you can shave your pubic hair... how is she going to know? i think the first time i did i had to cut a little off with scissors then shave. i was talking about it at like 14 (after doing it for more then a year) and my mom just thought i was joking. i really think that it is more of a personal matter and if u dont want it then get rid of it.
to the person that responded rite before me, it wasn't that any was looking down there when i was 13, it was that it was messy and gross. when u got your period it like clumped up and it actually isn't too itchy, i just shave every time i go in the shower... the pits the legs and the vajayjay
um i never told my mom that i started to shave, so just do it, make sure you clip the hair some before you shave or it will take forever and use a lot of soap, and put lotion on after your done it will help with the itchiness of the hair growing back. just dint tell her, she doesn't see you naked or anything.
dont shave it.put a hair remover on it(like a cream,it melts away the hair)but it really is horribly itchy when it grows back,and i mean really itchy its unpleasant.just dont shave underneath or you could do yourself some injury.
im not sure how often your mom looks at your va jay jay, but couldn't you just do it and not say anything?
why would you need to ask her?
its not like shed find out if you did unless you frequently show her your bits
if my daughter asked me this id be like why are you asking me?
Actually, don't shave it. It is soooo itchy when it grows back.
i never asked my mom if i could shave my pubic hair..i just did...its what im comfortable with....just do it, im sure she is not looking at you naked anyway..
Any advice?? (Adults, don't open this if you don't want to hear any teenage crap!!!!!!)?
Ok. Another Boy problem.
There's this guy I like. Senior at my school. I see him everyday and he's really good friends with my brother and i really do think he likes me (btw, im a freshman). Now, i asked my friend lauren to talk to him for me.
she said he said he thought i was cute and all, but im too young. I was so heartbroken, but idk if he actuall meant it, or if he just said that not to sound like a perv or anything. What should i do???Any advice?? (Adults, don't open this if you don't want to hear any teenage crap!!!!!!)?
Ok so I think he meant it. Don't be too upset cause I would be a bit worried if he was all for going out with you, strictly because of the grade difference. Senior boys can easily use underclassman girls for sex, trust me on this one I've been though my share off shady seniors last year as a sophomore. Him saying no to dating you shows he's a good guy, so don't worry if it's meant to be he'll see you for you and not your age. Just be careful with the older guys, I'm a junior in high school and my boyfriend is a freshman in collage, he is the sweetest guy but last year I ran into enough creepers his age to made me wary of being with him.Any advice?? (Adults, don't open this if you don't want to hear any teenage crap!!!!!!)?
he probably thinks you're cute but he's not attracted to you because of how young you are. and he might also see you that way because you are his friend's little sister.
if he liked you he would definitely go for it, even if you were a bit young. just continue to grow up and act mature around him, don't keep insisting that you like him. he knows you're interested, so in the future, as you continue to grow, he'll see how pretty and mature you've become and maybe he'll try to go out with you.
as for now, drop it and try to focus your attention on cute boys who like you no matter what. i know it's hard to get over it, but i think it would hurt worse to be known as the pesky little sister with a huge crush.
good luck! i know you like him, but there are also a bunch of other cuties in school!
Okay, I was a freshman last year. And i fell for this boy sean who was a senior he went to a school a town over from where I go and we texted each other non-stop from last november to about July... I was completely in love with him and he knew it i told him all the time, and hes always just brought up ';jail bait'; everytime. I didn't really care at the time and I just loved having him to talk to..having someone older for some reason just feels safer. So anyway then the summer came and we went to go see Year One with my best friend her Bf. The whole time was fine he held my hand for a little while and then when we where walking out he gave me the best hug I've ever gotten and he just looked at me and said ';Bye Hun'; and he his facial expression didn't look right.. then on his way to his car it looked like he stepped in something so i texted him and hes like Yeah I stepped in a puddle and i just wrote back ';oh lol'; and then when he drove by he rolled down his window and yelled ';It's not nice to laugh at people Paige!'; with the cutest look on his face ever. Then about a week or two later he stopped talking to me all together. He won't tell me why, I've tried to ask him so many times but always nothing... It's been almost four months since then I seriosly can't handle it there hasnt been a day that I havent thought about him, people say I should delete everything he's ever sent me and get rid of everything he gave me, but I just can't I think that would make it worse...
Im telling you now, don't get involved with seniors when your only a freshman once he leaves you'll be even more heart broken and he can get in trouble for going out with you. And it can kill so much of your time you could be spending with someone your own age that's going the same pace as you.
sorry that was really long..
Maybe you are too young and you have to accept that.
If not, then just say hi when you see him and just chat with him. Maybe even ask him to hang out doing something silly - (something you wouldn't do on a real date).
If you talk to him and he never asks you out or shows no interest, move on.
Good luck!
There's this guy I like. Senior at my school. I see him everyday and he's really good friends with my brother and i really do think he likes me (btw, im a freshman). Now, i asked my friend lauren to talk to him for me.
she said he said he thought i was cute and all, but im too young. I was so heartbroken, but idk if he actuall meant it, or if he just said that not to sound like a perv or anything. What should i do???Any advice?? (Adults, don't open this if you don't want to hear any teenage crap!!!!!!)?
Ok so I think he meant it. Don't be too upset cause I would be a bit worried if he was all for going out with you, strictly because of the grade difference. Senior boys can easily use underclassman girls for sex, trust me on this one I've been though my share off shady seniors last year as a sophomore. Him saying no to dating you shows he's a good guy, so don't worry if it's meant to be he'll see you for you and not your age. Just be careful with the older guys, I'm a junior in high school and my boyfriend is a freshman in collage, he is the sweetest guy but last year I ran into enough creepers his age to made me wary of being with him.Any advice?? (Adults, don't open this if you don't want to hear any teenage crap!!!!!!)?
he probably thinks you're cute but he's not attracted to you because of how young you are. and he might also see you that way because you are his friend's little sister.
if he liked you he would definitely go for it, even if you were a bit young. just continue to grow up and act mature around him, don't keep insisting that you like him. he knows you're interested, so in the future, as you continue to grow, he'll see how pretty and mature you've become and maybe he'll try to go out with you.
as for now, drop it and try to focus your attention on cute boys who like you no matter what. i know it's hard to get over it, but i think it would hurt worse to be known as the pesky little sister with a huge crush.
good luck! i know you like him, but there are also a bunch of other cuties in school!
Okay, I was a freshman last year. And i fell for this boy sean who was a senior he went to a school a town over from where I go and we texted each other non-stop from last november to about July... I was completely in love with him and he knew it i told him all the time, and hes always just brought up ';jail bait'; everytime. I didn't really care at the time and I just loved having him to talk to..having someone older for some reason just feels safer. So anyway then the summer came and we went to go see Year One with my best friend her Bf. The whole time was fine he held my hand for a little while and then when we where walking out he gave me the best hug I've ever gotten and he just looked at me and said ';Bye Hun'; and he his facial expression didn't look right.. then on his way to his car it looked like he stepped in something so i texted him and hes like Yeah I stepped in a puddle and i just wrote back ';oh lol'; and then when he drove by he rolled down his window and yelled ';It's not nice to laugh at people Paige!'; with the cutest look on his face ever. Then about a week or two later he stopped talking to me all together. He won't tell me why, I've tried to ask him so many times but always nothing... It's been almost four months since then I seriosly can't handle it there hasnt been a day that I havent thought about him, people say I should delete everything he's ever sent me and get rid of everything he gave me, but I just can't I think that would make it worse...
Im telling you now, don't get involved with seniors when your only a freshman once he leaves you'll be even more heart broken and he can get in trouble for going out with you. And it can kill so much of your time you could be spending with someone your own age that's going the same pace as you.
sorry that was really long..
Maybe you are too young and you have to accept that.
If not, then just say hi when you see him and just chat with him. Maybe even ask him to hang out doing something silly - (something you wouldn't do on a real date).
If you talk to him and he never asks you out or shows no interest, move on.
Good luck!
Teenage daughter and troubled home how to handle want to sort things out with the best advice?
Dear all
My daughter is a teenager and gets very angry and shouts all the time. She has become very arrogant and it is increasing day by day. Yes she has lots of studies, and no one to help her on the same. Though not upto my budget i have arranged home tuitions for her.
i work 12 hours a day, my husband has just started working. i dont have good realtionship infact we dont talk to each other. He is a disciplinarian and always fights and shouts if things are not done his way.
every morning my daughter and my husband fight and the whole day is a mess for all. i have another son who is younger but is ok expect for his never ending demand of toys.
i feel there should be some way i can work it out but confused.
i get tired as i have physical and mental tension at office, i am working because of economical situation and not very happy at work but necessity.
when my daughter is calm i have explained but i dont know.
there used to be days she used to be ok but now a days it is everyday she is rude and rough and bangs the door.
pls advice.Teenage daughter and troubled home how to handle want to sort things out with the best advice?
i think it is sensible age for girl. you should communicate with her more ( i know it is difficult, because u r working for 12 hours a day, but one of you have to spend some time with her), knowing how is day in school, and what is her relationship with her classmates. it is very important,as you know nowdays , the kids are very easy to learn something bad than having a good habit.
meanwhile, you can arrange a competition between her and her younger brother. maybe, they can take care of each other.
you'd better enjoy the time at home though you have a lot of pressure from work. as you know, when your emotion does not feel well, then you look at everything negatively.
Be happy!
My daughter is a teenager and gets very angry and shouts all the time. She has become very arrogant and it is increasing day by day. Yes she has lots of studies, and no one to help her on the same. Though not upto my budget i have arranged home tuitions for her.
i work 12 hours a day, my husband has just started working. i dont have good realtionship infact we dont talk to each other. He is a disciplinarian and always fights and shouts if things are not done his way.
every morning my daughter and my husband fight and the whole day is a mess for all. i have another son who is younger but is ok expect for his never ending demand of toys.
i feel there should be some way i can work it out but confused.
i get tired as i have physical and mental tension at office, i am working because of economical situation and not very happy at work but necessity.
when my daughter is calm i have explained but i dont know.
there used to be days she used to be ok but now a days it is everyday she is rude and rough and bangs the door.
pls advice.Teenage daughter and troubled home how to handle want to sort things out with the best advice?
i think it is sensible age for girl. you should communicate with her more ( i know it is difficult, because u r working for 12 hours a day, but one of you have to spend some time with her), knowing how is day in school, and what is her relationship with her classmates. it is very important,as you know nowdays , the kids are very easy to learn something bad than having a good habit.
meanwhile, you can arrange a competition between her and her younger brother. maybe, they can take care of each other.
you'd better enjoy the time at home though you have a lot of pressure from work. as you know, when your emotion does not feel well, then you look at everything negatively.
Be happy!
Teenage love advice?
So I came into work the other day to find a new guy starting on his first day. We introduced each other and went back to our separate work. He is tall, dark, and totally handsome and when I found out we were the same age, I almost died of excitement. My boss soon asked me to show him around and help him with his first day;I had no idea why my luck was good that day but it definitely was.We got to talking and he made me laugh and blush a lot. He always seem to find an excuse to touch me, not in a bad way, but like he grabbed my ponytail and as soon as I turned around he just smiled. I feel like I've known him for so long; its a great feeling. At the end of our shift, he asked me to come outside with him alone. Of course I agreed and then we sat on this cute little bench in the shade. He pulled out his Ipod and gave me an earpiece and started playing a few songs, then he asked me to pick one. Then we just started talking and laughing again. Advice on if he likes me %26amp; if so, what to do??Teenage love advice?
From the sound of it he likes you, so just go for it, ask him out!
Good Luck!Teenage love advice?
He probably likes you but take some time to get to know him more. You'll enjoy spending the time with him and it'll give him the oppurtunity to get to know you and come to like you more...where he could ask you out. But don't rush into asking him out without really getting to know him.
Yep! he seems to like you. You just had alot of luck that day. Ask him is he seeing anyone?
Tell him that you like him--I found out that not telling someone that can just make things go wrong. like you think yall are good and moving somewhere when u didnt even tell him u liked him. then he may show up @ work with someone else because u didnt make a move. but follow your heartpuffy eye cream
From the sound of it he likes you, so just go for it, ask him out!
Good Luck!Teenage love advice?
He probably likes you but take some time to get to know him more. You'll enjoy spending the time with him and it'll give him the oppurtunity to get to know you and come to like you more...where he could ask you out. But don't rush into asking him out without really getting to know him.
Yep! he seems to like you. You just had alot of luck that day. Ask him is he seeing anyone?
Tell him that you like him--I found out that not telling someone that can just make things go wrong. like you think yall are good and moving somewhere when u didnt even tell him u liked him. then he may show up @ work with someone else because u didnt make a move. but follow your heart
Advice, links, or opinions for a black and white victorian/elegant teenage bedroom?
I'm moving into the basement for Christmas, and I get to re-decorate it. These are some of the things I was looking for for my new room:
http://www.amazon.com/Black-White-Zeus-C鈥?/a>
http://www.target.com/Victorian-Accent-T鈥?/a>
http://www.shopwildthings.com/cheblmeglt鈥?/a>
http://www3.jcpenney.com/jcp/X6.aspx?Dep鈥?/a>
http://www.apartmenttherapy.com/chicago/鈥?/a>
http://classicalguitarworkshop.com/index鈥?/a>
http://www3.jcpenney.com/jcp/X6.aspx?Dep鈥?/a>
http://www.target.com/Large-Scroll-Bench鈥?/a>
http://www.target.com/Satin-Sheet-Set-%E鈥?/a>
Do you kinda see the look I'm going for? Links? Advice? Opinions?
Thank You!Advice, links, or opinions for a black and white victorian/elegant teenage bedroom?
well so far i think it's lovely. but taht stuff is pricey. i don't know where to get it chepaer, sorry. but it looks very nice. ^_^
http://www.amazon.com/Black-White-Zeus-C鈥?/a>
http://www.target.com/Victorian-Accent-T鈥?/a>
http://www.shopwildthings.com/cheblmeglt鈥?/a>
http://www3.jcpenney.com/jcp/X6.aspx?Dep鈥?/a>
http://www.apartmenttherapy.com/chicago/鈥?/a>
http://classicalguitarworkshop.com/index鈥?/a>
http://www3.jcpenney.com/jcp/X6.aspx?Dep鈥?/a>
http://www.target.com/Large-Scroll-Bench鈥?/a>
http://www.target.com/Satin-Sheet-Set-%E鈥?/a>
Do you kinda see the look I'm going for? Links? Advice? Opinions?
Thank You!Advice, links, or opinions for a black and white victorian/elegant teenage bedroom?
well so far i think it's lovely. but taht stuff is pricey. i don't know where to get it chepaer, sorry. but it looks very nice. ^_^
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